Why You'd Rather Lose Than Be Treated Unfairly

What do abandoned mansions in Bucharest have to do with dirty dishes and emotional resentment? In this episode, I explore how our desire for fairness can lead us to self-sabotage — and how Stoic justice asks us to think beyond pride, punishment, and being right. We’ll walk through a real-world example of decades-long property disputes, connect it to the Ultimatum Game in behavioral economics, and look at how these same dynamics show up in our everyday relationships — from family drama to who does the dishes. This is an invitation to reflect on what you"re holding onto, and whether it’s time to build something new — even without the apology or closure you thought you needed. *** Hi! I’m your host, Sarah Mikutel, an American in England and fellow citizen of the world. A few things I love: Stoicism, great vegetarian tacos, and helping my coaching clients thrive in all areas of their lives.  sarahmikutel.com ❤️ Does the phrase “public speaking” make you feel a little sick…even if it’s just a team meeting or a group conversation?  I made something to help you. Calm Your Nerves in 90 Seconds is a free anxiety-reduction toolkit with a guided meditation and journal to help you communicate with confidence. Use it anytime your brain goes into overdrive and you need a reset. https://sarahmikutel.com/reset