Seeing Sideways - Wired for Worry: How to Overcome Your Brain's Negativity Bias

Get in touch with us! We’d appreciate your feedback and comments. “The negativity bias doesn"t just distort your mood—it reshapes your attention.” Why does your mind hold onto criticism more than compliments? In this episode of Seeing Sideways, Jason Birkevold Liem explores The Negativity Bias—your brain’s built-in tendency to focus on what’s wrong—and offers practical strategies to shift from survival-mode thinking to emotional clarity and resilience. Why does one small mistake outweigh a dozen wins—and how can you retrain your brain to see the full picture? Key Takeaway Insights and Tools (with Timestamps):Negativity Bias: Why the Brain Fixates on What"s Wrong Our brains evolved to prioritize threats over rewards—making negative input stickier and more dominant than positive input. [01:02]The Cost: Shrinking Perspective and Chronic Self-Doubt This bias narrows attention, amplifies stress, and turns minor discomforts into perceived dangers—impacting work, relationships, and well-being. [03:36]The 5:1 Rule – Rebalance Emotional Weight Because one negative interaction outweighs five positive ones, use this ratio as a loose mental guide to help recalibrate your attention. [05:22]Expand the Frame – Ask “What Else Is True?” This simple reframing question prevents tunnel vision and allows for more nuanced, balanced thinking, even in difficult moments. [05:50]Celebrate Small Wins to Rewire Your Perspective By tracking small moments of progress, you help your nervous system register safety and strength—essential for building emotional resilience. [06:36] Tools & Practices Mentioned:The 5:1 Rule – Counteract negativity by intentionally registering more positive inputs“What Else Is True?” Reframe – Restore nuance during emotionally charged momentsDaily Reflection Practice – Name what worked, what you’re proud of, and small winsPaper Tiger Analogy – Notice when emotional responses are out of proportion to real threat Bio: Jason Birkevold Liem is a leadership coach, resilience trainer, and the author of Seeing Sideways: The Hidden Patterns Behind How We Think, Choose, and React. Through his podcast It’s an Inside Job, Jason helps listeners build the mindset and emotional tools to lead with intention and respond to life’s challenges with clarity. Support the show Sign up for the weekly IT"S AN INSIDE JOB NEWSLETTER takes 5 seconds to fill out receive a fresh update every Wednesday