Moral Superiority: The Cost of Needing to Be “Better” Than Others

Moral superiority is a trap that almost everyone falls into, often without realizing it. In this episode, Michael, Hari Prasada, and Rasanath unpack the ways in which the ego drives us to feel “better” than others—even in the name of values and virtue. They share personal anecdotes and insights to explore how moral superiority can mask unresolved emotions, hinder relationships, and alienate us from others. With vulnerability and depth, they reveal how to distinguish genuine values from ego-driven behavior and discuss the path toward transcending this subtle, yet powerful, egoic tendency. If you’ve ever struggled with the need to be “right” or “good,” this conversation will challenge and inspire you to reflect more deeply. Links: Upbuild Coaching Training (six-month program, starts October 19th) Enneagram Workshop (October 4-5, 2025) Upbuild Website Instagram: @upbuildnyc Facebook: Upbuild LinkedIn: Upbuild