Kim Bolourtchi: How to Be Strategically Unruly & Create the Life You Want

Burnout Recovery works better with support. UNFRIED is our small group (5 people max!) coaching program to help guide you through your recovery. Apply now! [http://bit.ly/unfried] Most of the rules you’re following were never made with you in mind and could be the reason you’re burned out. Cait Donovan sits down with keynote speaker and executive consultant Kim Bolourtchi to talk about what it really means to be Strategically Unruly, and why breaking the right rules might be the key to burnout recovery. Kim shares her story of living a double life as a buttoned-up lawyer and national Latin dance champion, and how a surprising moment in front of the Missouri Supreme Court shattered the divide between who she was and who she thought she had to be. Together, Cait and Kim unpack how internalized beliefs and outdated expectations—both personal and cultural—keep people stuck in roles that drain their energy and bury their potential. They explore how resentment can serve as a clue to what you really want, why authenticity isn’t just a buzzword, and how to start making change without burning your entire life down. This episode is a reminder that you don’t have to follow rules that were never made for you. Start with one shift. One rule you no longer want to live by. One step toward being more fully yourself. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Introduction  02:33 The Concept of Being Strategically Unruly 08:04 Developing a Framework for Strategic Unruliness 11:25 Internal vs. External Rules 13:53 The Impact of Rules on Personal Growth 16:14 Challenging Rules That Limit Us 18:09 Deservedness and Burnout 20:07 Focusing on Rules That Hold You Back 25:16 Finding and Challenging Your Own Rules 29:33 Resistance to Breaking Rules 34:54 Being Honest About Commitment 37:01 The Importance of Internal Feeling 39:16 Freeing Up Capacity by Being Authentic Links Connect with Kim Bolourtchi: https://kimbolourtchi.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberly-bolourtchi/ Connect with Cait: Initial Call with Cait: bit.ly/callcait Initial Call with Sarah: bit.ly/callsarahv Burnout Recovery works better with support. UNFRIED is our small group (5 people max!) coaching program to help guide you through your recovery. Apply now! [http://bit.ly/unfried] Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm