Conversations with Tom | Rangan Chatterjee on How You Find Out Who You Really Are

On this episode of Conversations with Tom, Rangan and Tom Bilyeu discuss how crucially important human touch is, and talk extensively about how harmful stress is. Dr. Chatterjee even claims that stress is a bigger part of digestive disorders than food is. This is not the only controversial claim he makes, but he has both the research and the life experience treating patients to back up what he says. After watching this episode you may very well conclude that it’s the simple things that we need to get right: human touch, intimacy, and relaxation. The complexity and the tech can wait. This episode is brought to you by: Skillshare: Explore your creativity at skillshare.com/impacttheory for 2 free months of Premium Membership. Tresta: Start your free 30-day trial at tresta.com/impact SHOW NOTES:  Rangan talks about hanging on to the toxic emotion of guilt as a parent [0:04] How do you let go of toxic emotions? [2:53] Do people really need to suffer in order to get motivated to truly change? [9:59] Rangan contends that most people are walking around unconscious to what matters [11:12] Rangan talks about what happens when people really have to face their trauma [16:18] How do you get people to start working out who don’t want to work out? [21:37] Rangan says the point of life is to figure out who you are. Tom disagrees. [25:28] Rangan explains losing his passion for soccer, and wonders if the passion was ever real [30:47] Tom says that there is no such thing as a fundamental self [38:13] Rangan says that his journey was absolutely one of letting go of false selves [40:36] When you can see that your self is a construct, then you can start to un-construct it [59:10] Diet and exercise is over-emphasized compared to overwhelming stress [1:01:33] Rangan believes that stress is fundamentally what’s causing lower libido and infertility [1:04:09] Stress is also a bigger component than food when it comes to digestive disorders [1:06:39] Rangan describes methods to relax before eating [1:13:06] Rangan describes the mindfulness practices he uses [1:22:12] Rangan and Tom discuss that how stress interferes with sex [1:23:31] A lack of close, nourishing relationships is one of the biggest causes of stress [1:29:55] There might be a point where you are having too much sex [1:48:21] Technology has harmed intimacy [1:51:24]  FOLLOW RANGAN: WEBSITE: drchatterjee.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2Vm7vFH FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2vfpNOn TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2PlSS1h  Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you. This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day. Subscription Benefits: Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement Money Mindset: Business & Finance Relationship Theory: Relationships Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices