Babbling About The Two Sides Of Vulnerability

#176: Ever noticed how "be vulnerable" has become the go-to advice for everything from dating to leadership? But what if vulnerability isn"t always the answer? The truth about vulnerability is far more nuanced than inspirational quotes suggest. While opening up can create deeper connections and build self-respect, vulnerability with the wrong people at the wrong time can leave us wounded, manipulated, and heartbroken. In this raw exploration, I dive into both sides of this emotional coin—examining how vulnerability serves us and when it harms us. Drawing from personal experiences (including my tendency to overshare in dating situations), I explore what happens when vulnerability becomes a one-sided endeavor. Do you find yourself always being the one to reach out, open up, and share your feelings while others give emotional crumbs in return? That"s not intimacy—it"s a power imbalance. We"ll also tackle the uncomfortable truth that sometimes people who haven"t earned our trust don"t deserve access to our hearts. Vulnerability without boundaries is just emotional exposure, and discerning who gets to see your authentic self is an act of self-protection, not walls. The key isn"t to never be vulnerable but to be wise about when and with whom we share our true selves. True vulnerability filters your life, bringing the right people closer while revealing who isn"t capable of meeting you where you need to be met. Whether you"re recovering from heartbreak, navigating difficult relationships, or simply trying to understand the line between openness and oversharing, this episode offers a fresh perspective on what healthy vulnerability actually looks like. Listen now and learn how to stop dimming your light just to make others more comfortable. You can now send us a text to ask a question or review the show. We would love to hear from you! Follow me on social: https://www.instagram.com/babbles_nonsense/