414: The Codependency Revolution with Ross Rosenberg

In this episode, I sit down with Ross Rosenberg, a global thought leader in codependency, narcissism, and trauma treatment. We discuss how traditional approaches often missed the mark and led to stigmatization. Understanding the roots of these behaviors — often linked to childhood trauma — is crucial for breaking free from unhealthy relationship patterns.  Ross also introduces his innovative Human Magnet Syndrome, explaining why certain personality types are irresistibly drawn to narcissistic partners. It's a hopeful and eye-opening discussion for anyone struggling with codependency. I talk about overcoming my own codependent tendencies in my marriage, demonstrating that change is possible with mutual growth and self-love. We touch on Ross's Relationship Compatibility Theory, and by the end of the episode, you'll have a new perspective on codependency and be equipped with actionable insights for your own self-love and recovery journey! In this episode, you will hear: The concept of Self-Love Deficit Disorder and the inadequacies of traditional codependency treatments. Early misinterpretations and the role of childhood attachment trauma in developing codependent behaviors. Why certain personality types are drawn to narcissistic partners and how this impacts relationships. How to transform codependent tendencies into balanced partnerships. Tips on resolving core shame, supporting each other, and maintaining fulfilling relationships through the Relationship Compatibility Theory. The importance of understanding and addressing the deep-seated trauma that underlies codependency for effective healing. Resources from this Episode Green Chef. Greenchef.com/adult50 and use code adult50 to get 50% off, plus 20% off your next two months.  elfloverecovery.com Help@selfloverecovery.com  MORE ADULT CHAIR The Adult Chair® Website https://theadultchair.com      Instagram https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant    Facebook https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant/    The Adult Chair® Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair/    YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant