286: The "Hey Wait" Technique: How to Set Boundaries Like a Leader with Jay Fields

Jay Fields is an author, somatic coach, and experiential educator. Jay joins the Workday Playdate to discuss the importance of setting boundaries, the emotional complexities of relationships, and how to navigate communication overload while maintaining empathy. Jay introduces the “Hey Wait” technique, a simple yet powerful tool for asserting yourself in conversations when you may be used to leaving yourself out. Jay also shares why we develop people pleasing patterns (hint: it has something to do with how we think about connection). Inside This Episode: Why empathy does not mean sacrificing your own needs in relationships Why acknowledging your own reality is crucial for healthy communication Why people pleasing doesn’t equal being a “good” person in relationships Who This Episode Is For: Anyone who identifies as a “recovering people pleaser,” anyone looking to set stronger personal and professional boundaries, or anyone who’s looking for techniques to advocate for themselves in conversations of all kinds—this one’s for you. Take a break from your emails, slam your laptop shut for 30ish minutes, and come have a Workday Playdate with us. And if you’re interested in taking one small action right now, you can check out our newest freebie, The 5-Minute Team Commitment Reset, here. It’s a plug-and-play exercise that will get your team mentally present, engaged, and committed before any meeting.  No, You Hang Up First (Let’s Keep Connecting) Did today’s episode resonate with you? Leave us a review sharing your favorite insight and we’ll send you a free signed copy of I See You! A Leader’s Guide to Energizing Your Team through Radical Empathy. Have another question that we can answer? Leave us a Speakpipe audio clip and we’ll answer it in an upcoming episode. Don’t want to miss another episode? If you’re a Spotify listener, find our show here and click “Follow.” If you’re an Apple Podcast listener, click here and make sure to hit “+Follow.” Want access to a bunch of free resources for your work life? This is your personal jackpot that gives you access to the frameworks that help us thrive both personally and professionally. Whether you’re trying to improve your daily routine, flesh out an idea that you’ve had for quite some time, or want to add more play into your day - these resources have got your back. Want 2 emails a week from us? One with a quick tip you can implement right away to enhance your personal and/or professional lives & one of our famous F.A.I.L. Fourward Friday newsletters? Subscribe here. Connect with Jay Fields Jay’s website Jay’s LinkedIn Connect with Erin Diehl x improve it! Erin’s website Erin’s Instagram Erin’s TikTok Erin’s LinkedIn improve it!’s website improve it!’s Instagram