269. Q&A: How do I get my young kids to stop swearing?

Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Emily Upshur and I talk about...   - Unpacking your own feelings about swearing (or any undesirable behaviors) your child is engaging in.   - How to teach your child to attune to their environment and know when and where certain behaviors are appropriate and when and where they are not.   - Zooming out to identify what your child’s intention is when they are swearing (to test boundaries, in anger, in silly moments, etc.) to help you know how to respond.   - When and how to use strategies that have the greatest likelihood of getting this behavior to stop.   - A playful script that can defuse the tension and keep you from feeling triggered.    - The big differences to the approaches you may want to try based on who is the recipient of inappropriate or hurtful language.   - How to get your children to disengage from each other’s negative behaviors, instead of being fueled by each other.   - How Dr. Sarah and Dr. Emily handle swearing in their own homes with their kids.   - The benefits of swearing that may surprise you.     REFERENCES AND RELATED RESOURCES: Swearing may be a sign of a higher intelligence Cursing can increase pain tolerance      ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE:   🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about what to do when kids say they hate themselves   🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about what to do when kids say they hate you   🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about enforcing consequences that teach     WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU:   Go to https://drsarahbren.com/question to send us a question or a topic you want to hear us answer on Securely Attached - Beyond the Sessions!