195. Debunking Bad Marriage Advice and Building Lasting Connections with Monica Tanner

Ever received marriage advice that left you more confused than confident? On this powerful episode of Stress-Free SOULutions, relationship expert and host of the popular podcast "Secrets of Happily Ever After," Monica Tanner, joins Sarah to debunk common myths and share real strategies for building strong, lasting connections in marriage. Monica dives into her groundbreaking new book, "Bad Marriage Advice," which challenges harmful stereotypes and provides actionable tips for clear, compassionate communication. Through candid conversations and relatable anecdotes, Monica and Sarah discuss everything from managing micro disappointments and navigating marital conflicts to gracefully evolving through various life seasons—especially when parenting adult children. Packed with humor, wisdom, and refreshing honesty, this episode is essential for anyone wanting to strengthen their marriage, no matter what stage they’re in. 🎧 In this episode you'll discover: 💍 Why common marriage advice often backfires and how to fix it 💬 Proven strategies for better, more effective marital communication 🌱 Ways to handle micro disappointments before they become major issues 🔑 Crucial steps for repairing and reconnecting after conflict 👨‍👩‍👧 Insights into navigating marriage during different parenting stages, including adult children 💔 Practical advice on overcoming major marital challenges, such as infidelity and therapy hurdles Ready to stop feeling stuck and start enjoying the marriage you deserve? Join us and get the clarity, courage, and tools to create a thriving, deeply connected partnership. ⏰ Episode Highlights & Timestamps: 01:26 Behind the Scenes: Writing "Bad Marriage Advice" 03:36 Top Misguided Advice Hurting Your Marriage 06:55 Communication Techniques That Actually Work 10:00 Busting Marriage Myths & Misconceptions 14:24 Marriage & Parenthood: How to Stay Connected 17:44 Overcoming Daily Disappointments in Relationships 20:46 Why Common Advice Often Misses Communication Essentials 21:37 Truths About Prenuptial Agreements 23:51 Mastering the Art of Effective Marital Communication 27:49 Practical Tools to Repair After Conflict 29:35 Navigating Your Marriage Through Life’s Seasons 33:13 Real Talk: Parenting Adult Children & Marriage Dynamics 34:37 Overcoming Communication Challenges in Couples Therapy 36:52 Healing from Infidelity: Steps Toward Recovery 41:00 Final Thoughts, Resources & Encouragement for Your Marriage Journey Pre-order Bad Marriage Advice: https://badmarriageadvice.com. Connect with Monica: IG https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ Website: https://monicatanner.com