Start Standing Out: Normal Is Boring.

SUMMARY Most of us spend our lives trying to blend in; at work, in friendships, even on stage. But the harder we chase acceptance, the more invisible we become. In this episode, I share my own story of being pushed out of the very communities I once belonged to, and how that rejection became the catalyst for finding my voice. You’ll learn why “not fitting in” is often the beginning of true influence, how to turn outsider energy into credibility, and why your quirks might be your greatest professional asset. 🔥 What you’ll take away:The psychology behind belonging and exclusionWhy hiding your truth erodes influence (and how to stop)How to reframe rejection as the start of credibilityPractical steps to turn difference into magnetic presence This isn’t about theory. It’s about lived experience, raw stories, and a roadmap for anyone who’s ever felt like they didn’t belong. Do you want to hear the story that made me feel so vulnerable on stage? https://youtu.be/MRR9K9HvnRE 👉 Listen in and discover why not fitting in might just be your unfair advantage. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction: Embracing the Outsider Advantage 01:02 Personal Story: The Pain of Not Fitting In 02:52 Questioning Beliefs: A Turning Point 04:49 The Power of Authenticity 08:31 Navigating Relationships and Acceptance 12:49 The Importance of Vulnerability 20:18 Conclusion: Your Uniqueness as Leverage Visit presentinfluence.com/quiz to take the Speaker Radiance Quiz and discover your Charisma Quotient. For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence Thanks for listening, and please give the show a 5* review if you enjoyed it.