What We Lose While Chasing What We’re Told to Want with Kohila Sivas | Ep 241

20 Aug 2025 • 29 min • EN
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This week’s “How She Finds Purpose” insight comes from Kohila Sivas. She says – “We wear all the shoulds, and then we become empty. And then we ask, why am I empty? I did everything right. I'm still feeling empty. That's because your soul, you haven't considered this soul. So if you're successful, that's what I would look at. We are a product of an education system, a society that made us believe that you have to do this. You should do this. You need to produce this way. You need to perform. Like, performance is everything. If you're not performing, you you must be really bad at your life. We're always measured by performance. I think we need to replace that with we just need to be present.” Here are 3 reasons why you should listen to this episode: You’ll hear how a near-tragic experience at age 12 became the turning point that shaped her mission and her life’s purpose. You’ll discover why performance and “checking boxes” leave so many women unfulfilled, and what to focus on instead. You’ll learn how presence, alignment, and honoring your soul can help you move past burnout and toward meaningful, purpose-driven work. Kohila Sivas is a visionary educator and learning success coach who created the Holistic Neuro-Growth Method, a groundbreaking approach that helps children, families, and now adults heal from burnout, overwhelm, and disconnection. She leads a global movement to restore the human spirit in learning and life. Connect with Kohila at: Website: http://holisticsuccesscodes.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WholisticSuccessCodes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wholistic_successcodes/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WholisticSuccessCodes LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/wholistic-successcodes/   Would you prefer to watch or listen to the podcast on YouTube? Head on over to https://www.youtube.com/@leadershippurposepodcast   Want to connect? Connect with Dr. Robin on  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robinlowensphd/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robinlowensphd Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/robinlowensphd/ Email: Robin@LeadershipPurposePodcast.com   Thank you for listening! Rate, review, & follow on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast player. Talk to you soon!   This episode was produced by Lynda, Podcast Manager for GenX Creative Entrepreneurs at https://www.ljscreativeservices.co.nz    

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