Understanding Worthiness and the Unconscious Mind with TJ Fry

Today, I’m sitting down with my friend TJ Fry to explore the fascinating world of the unconscious mind. We unpack how this hidden part of our psyche shapes our beliefs, emotions, and behaviors. TJ and I break down the differences between the conscious and unconscious mind, why understanding this dynamic is key to personal growth, and how to reprogram your thoughts for lasting change. This conversation is packed with practical tips on language, gratitude, and self-awareness to help you take control of your mindset and live with intention.Unlock Your Mind: Tools to Reprogram and Transform With Today’s Episode:Question the narratives you’ve accepted—change starts with awareness.Use gratitude practices to rewire your thought patterns.Talk to yourself to build rapport with your unconscious mind.Give your unconscious mind clear instructions—it’s eager to serve.Recognize that beliefs can be changed at any time.Practice consistency—it’s more impactful than intensity.Shape your reality by being mindful of the language you use. Follow TJ Fry on Instagram for more insights and wisdom, and connect with me @itsgeorgebryant to share what resonated most with you in this episode! – We weren’t meant to do this alone… Whether it be business, relationships, or life. This is why this is an invitation for you…to join us inside the Relationships Beat Algorithms Alliance!!! Click here for a summary of the Alliance because if you're coming here into the show notes, there's a good chance you already know! ;) — We’ve made it easy to see George’s top 10 book recommendations! Click here to find George’s top 10 recommended books for mindset, customer journey, and relationships.  — Questions or comments about the episode? I’d love to hear from you! Send me a DM over on Instagram @itsgeorgebryant or pop on over to our free Facebook community, Relationship Beat Algorithms.  — Links not showing? Hop on over to our podcast blog, mindofgeorge.com/podcast for all the links from the show notes. — What do we talk about in this episode? 00:00 Introduction: The Power of Self-Talk 00:07 Meet TJ: Master of the Mind 00:34 Preparing for the Deep Dive 00:51 Understanding the Unconscious Mind 00:59 The Trap of Accepting Narratives 01:05 Shaping Beliefs and Morals 01:07 Changing Beliefs and Identity 01:11 Building Rapport with Yourself 01:16 The Importance of Clear Instructions 01:58 Language and Perception 02:09 Empowering Questions and Frameworks 02:18 Stages of Competence 02:35 The Role of Gratitude 02:50 Getting to the Next Level 04:11 TJ's Impact and Expertise 05:51 The Power of Poignant Delivery 08:34 The Unconscious Mind Explained 47:46 The Impact of Language on Beliefs 48:14 Challenging Self-Limiting Beliefs 48:50 The Power of Decision-Making 49:16 The Importance of Specific Questions 50:03 The Role of Beliefs in Shaping Reality 50:28 The Influence of Language on Self-Perception 51:10 The Power of Accountability in Personal Growth 52:47 The Pitfalls of Asking 'Why' 55:12 The Role of Memory and Perception 01:00:26 The Importance of Consistency 01:01:15 Programming the Unconscious Mind 01:01:18 The Role of Gratitude in Shaping Perception 01:01:49 The Reticular Activating System Explained 01:05:00 The Power of Consistency in Personal Growth 01:08:45 The Importance of Communication 01:18:28 The Role of Questions in Coaching 01:24:20 The Power of Declarative Language 01:25:44 The Importance of Self-Communication