Top Reasons You’re Struggling with Consistency (& How to Fix Them)

10 Jul 2025 • 21 min • EN
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Send Dr. Li a text here. Please leave your email address if you would like a reply, thanks. Struggling with staying consistent in your routines? You’re not alone! In this week’s episode, Dr. Christine Li dives deep into the real-life barriers to consistency, from people-pleasing and perfectionism to lack of clarity and negative self-talk. Plus, she shares actionable remedies and mindset tips to help you crush your goals without guilt or overwhelm. Get ready to transform how you show up for yourself—one small, consistent step at a time! Timestamps: 00:01:51 – 00:03:18Dr. Li shares how her clients requested help with consistency, acknowledging its universal challenge, and sets up the exploration of what blocks consistency. 00:03:18 – 00:05:28First major blocker: Giving your time away to others (people pleasing) rather than prioritizing your own needs.Brief exploration of perfectionism and rigid thinking as additional obstacles. 00:05:28 – 00:07:27The power of writing things down: Prevents forgetfulness, improves specificity and reliability in staying consistent. 00:07:27 – 00:08:47The risk of lack of clarity and fuzzy goals. The laser-beam focus approach to habits for energy and time savings. 00:08:47 – 00:11:08Emotional obstacles: Guilt, negative self-talk, and the importance of self-compassion in building consistency. 00:11:08 – 00:16:06Five practical remedies:Get clear on what you want and put it on your schedule.Commitment: The foundational mindset for reaching goals.Write things down as commitments, not just as ideas.Evaluate and troubleshoot moments of inconsistency.Don’t give up—explore new strategies and forgive past difficulties. To get the free download that accompanies this episode, go to: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/consistency To sign up for the Waitlist for the Simply Productive Program, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SP For more information on the Make Time for Success podcast, visit: https://www.maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com Gain Access to Dr. Christine Li’s Free Resource Library -- 12 downloadable tools and templates to help you bypass the impulse to procrastinate: https://procrastinationcoach.mykajabi.com/freelibrary To work with Dr. Li on a weekly basis in her coaching and accountability program, register for The Success Lab here: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com/lab Connect with Us! Dr. Christine Li Website: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/procrastinationcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/procrastinationcoach/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@procrastinationcoach The Success Lab: The 10th round of the Re-Energize Your Home 5-Day Challenge begins September 8th. This fun, free, effective event will give you tools to not only get a handle on your clutter, but also show you how to reclaim the energy in your home, your mind, and your life.  Sign up at https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/challenge

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