The Essence of Step Four - Investigation

Text and Be Heard Struggling with Step Four because it feels like a moral courtroom? Try a different door: investigation. We walk you through a detective-style approach that replaces vague guilt with clear facts, measurable progress, and quiet courage. Instead of outthinking pain, we show how to observe it, name it, and organize it—so your brain can finally rewire toward peace. We dig into two often-overlooked pillars of recovery: financial and moral inventories. If gambling, substances, or secrecy created debt, a spreadsheet becomes a lifeline. Listing every card, loan, and tab reduces shame’s fog and gives you a map out. On the emotional side, we trace how childhood bullying, family bankruptcy, and complicated sexual histories shape adult coping, intimacy, and self-worth. There’s room for humor, too—because laughing at the chaos helps you stop running from it. Throughout the conversation, we return to a simple truth: your EQ is your IQ in recovery. You cannot outthink an emotional issue; you can only feel it honestly and act with clarity. That’s why we emphasize practical tools, from a free recovery growth scorecard to step-by-step questions that strengthen new neural pathways. By reframing Step Four as curious inquiry, you learn to love your story without excusing harm, repair what you can, and prepare for the healing power of Step Five. If this resonates, subscribe, share with someone who needs it, and leave a review with your biggest insight. Then grab the free Recovery Growth Scorecard at www.lifeiswonderful.love and start your investigation today. Support the show Recovery is Beautiful. Go Live Your Best Life!! Facebook Group - Recovery Freedom Circle | Facebook Your EQ is Your IQ YouTube - Life Is Wonderful Hugo V Recovery Freedom Circle The System That Understands Recovery, Builds Character and Helps People Have Better Relationships. A Life Changing Solution, Saves You Time, 18 weeks www.lifeiswonderful.love Instagram - Lifeiswonderful.Love TikTok - Lifeiswonderful.Love Pinterest - Lifeiswonderful.Love Twitter - LifeWonderLove LinkedIn - Hugo Vrsalovic Life Is Wonderful.Love