The Courage Formula Vulnerability + Integrity = Real Leadership

Courage isn’t born in comfort—it’s born in friction. It shows up when we align vulnerability and integrity to do what’s right, even when it’s hard. In this episode of Reflect Forward, I share a deeply personal story about giving difficult feedback—feedback I didn’t want to give. As someone who literally writes books on feedback, I still felt the fear: fear of being judged, misunderstood, or disliked. But I reminded myself of my leadership mantra: Courage isn’t loud. Courage is quiet, vulnerable, and rooted in integrity. This episode is about redefining courage—not as bold, fearless heroism—but as showing up, telling the truth, and acting from your values. That’s real leadership. Why Vulnerability Matters We’ve been taught that leaders need to be confident, polished, and perfect. But the truth is, people connect with real. Vulnerability builds trust. It creates psychological safety. It fuels innovation. Whether it was navigating COVID, being hacked, or rolling out strategic plans that didn’t land perfectly, I’ve learned that being vulnerable doesn’t weaken leadership. It strengthens it. Mic Drop Moment #1: “People don’t follow perfection—they follow humanity.” Integrity: The Backbone of Trust Integrity isn’t perfection; it’s consistency. It’s doing what’s right, even when it’s inconvenient. Your team is watching your behavior more than your words. When you lead with integrity, you build trust and credibility that compounds over time. The Courage Equation Courage = Vulnerability + Integrity When you live by this formula, you don’t need to control outcomes—you just need to show up with heart. Leaders like Howard Schultz exemplify this: aligning their values with action, even in the face of risk. Build Your Courage Habit • Share one small truth daily. • Pause and ask, “What would courage look like right now?” • Reflect: Where did I lead with courage? Where did I hide? Key Takeaways 1. Courage isn't grand—it’s grounded. It happens in small, everyday moments when you choose to act from your values. 2. Vulnerability is your leadership superpower. It builds connection, trust, and a culture where people feel safe to be real. 3. Integrity creates credibility. Consistency between your values, words, and actions is how trust is earned over time. 4. Without integrity, vulnerability feels manipulative. But together, they create courageous leadership. 5. Micro-bravery builds the habit. Courage is a muscle—you strengthen it through small, intentional actions every day. Mic Drop Moment #2: “If you want to build a respected culture, say the hard thing—especially when it’s the right thing.” If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a fellow leader. Your support helps Reflect Forward grow and inspire more courageous leadership. This episode is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and wherever you get your podcasts. Don’t forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let’s connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/