Shai Tubali on Dissolving the Self, the Flexible Mind, and the Bliss of Not Knowing

What if transformation begins with forgetting everything you know? In this soul-opening episode of The xMonks Drive, host Gaurav Arora is joined by Dr. Shai Tubali—consciousness researcher, philosopher, and creator of the Expansion Method—to explore why self-improvement is the biggest obstacle to awakening. At 23, Shai experienced a spontaneous shift into a year of pure bliss, laughter, silence, and universal love—triggered not by effort, but by the realization that his "self" was an illusion. Together, they explore:Why self-help often strengthens the very illusion we need to dissolveHow deep questioning and mystical negation can expand consciousnessThe neuroscience behind why our brains resist truth—and how to outwit themHow to recognize whether you’re operating from cosmic flow or ego’s shadowThe role of spiritual ego, charisma, and capitalism in modern "enlightenment"What it means to live as an expression of the universe—not the self This episode isn’t self-help. It’s self-disillusionment, insight, and surrender. With roots in Upanishadic wisdom, Socratic dialogue, and consciousness studies, Shai’s words offer a path for those seeking not improvement—but liberation. 🎧 If you’ve ever felt that life’s answers lie in the space beyond identity, attachment, or knowing—this one’s for you. 🔗 Connect with us: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gauravaroragrv Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inspirewithgrv Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7vdhTjZlhltIt4e9YiBgMF?si=92853a15e3584866 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/the-xmonks-drive/id1549886334 Website: https://xmonks.com