People of Purpose Podcast 113: Rewriting the Story of Self-Esteem | Tanur & Tanin

Summary In this conversation, the speakers delve into the significance of self-esteem, particularly in men, and how it shapes various aspects of life, including relationships and personal growth. They explore the journey of developing self-esteem from childhood, the impact of family and peers, and the importance of self-reflection and emotional intelligence. The discussion also touches on navigating challenges, the role of vulnerability, and the necessity of living authentically to foster a healthy self-perception. In this conversation, the speakers explore themes of parenting, anxiety, personal growth, and the balance between hard work and ease. They discuss the importance of raising children with consciousness, the challenges of everyday tasks, and the significance of creating unique experiences for others. The dialogue also delves into self-promotion insecurities, the paradox of ease in achieving goals, and the importance of authenticity in one's life journey.     Takeaways Self-esteem is crucial for personal and professional success. Childhood experiences significantly shape self-esteem. Surrounding oneself with positive influences is vital. Self-reflection helps in understanding and improving self-esteem. Feedback can be a tool for growth, not a measure of worth. Family dynamics play a key role in self-perception. Avoiding emotional discomfort can lead to greater issues. Living authentically fosters a healthier self-image. Vulnerability is essential for personal growth. Self-esteem is influenced by both internal and external validation. Encouraging children to define their own experiences is vital. Anxiety can be a self-created fiction that doesn't serve us. Service and contribution are essential for personal growth. Everyday tasks can be challenging but are opportunities for growth. Finding ease in life can lead to greater abundance. Creating unique experiences for others is a fulfilling endeavor. Self-promotion should come from a place of authenticity and value. The hardest work is often being true to oneself. Living life fully requires active participation and curiosity. Trusting the process of life can lead to unexpected rewards.   Titles Unlocking the Power of Self-Esteem The Journey to Healthy Self-Perception Navigating Relationships and Self-Worth Overcoming Bullying: A Path to Confidence Family Influence on Self-Esteem Coping with Life's Challenges The Art of Self-Reflection   Sound Bites "Self-esteem is deeply shaped in our childhood." "I can be all the sides of me and I'm happy." "I wanted to connect people to what lights them up." "I would always take feedback to heart." "I can figure out how to make us money." "Avoiding is not the solution; it's growing." "I wouldn't tolerate the discomfort or pain of something." "I will meet those questions with dialogue rather than answers." "I think it's the stupidest, meaningless feeling." "I'm wanting to figure out how I can..." "I don't want that to be like my ceiling." "I just want people to feel like a kid again." "The more ease you embody, the more abundance you create." "The best form of wisdom is living your life."   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Self-Esteem and Its Importance 03:12 The Journey of Self-Esteem Development 05:54 The Role of Relationships in Self-Perception 09:09 Navigating Bullying and Negative Feedback 12:06 Influence of Family on Self-Esteem 15:00 Coping with Challenges and Emotional Navigation 18:12 The Importance of Self-Reflection 21:13 Understanding Internal vs. External Validation 23:59 The Power of Living Authentically 27:03 Embracing Vulnerability and Growth 29:54 Conclusion and Final Thoughts on Self-Esteem 38:22 Raising a Conscious Child 39:54 Navigating Anxiety and Consciousness 41:23 Embracing Service and Contribution 44:29 The Challenge of Everyday Tasks 46:05 The Balance of Hard Work and Ease 50:13 Creating Unique Experiences 52:29 Overcoming Self-Promotion Insecurities 55:01 The Paradox of Ease and Hard Work 01:00:37 Authenticity and True Nature 01:04:04 Trusting the Process of Life   Connect with Tanin Kayvan: Instagram LinkedIn Rise and Roam Adventures Connect with Tanur Badgley: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn