Paul Zolman – Role of Love

In this episode of the Journey of My Mother’s Son podcast, I talk with Paul Zolman. Paul has created a new way to demonstrate the principles of the love languages.  It's a profound way to learn all five love languages to give them away.  By giving them away, your vision will improve to the point that you can see them coming your way and respond appropriately.  The system is so easy that even young children can be trained in this love giving system.  Spoiler alert:  it's a game where everyone wins. Paul is also the international bestselling author of the Role of Love, but the true author of love is God. In His wisdom, He placed us in a variety of circumstances that require us to find our way back to His pure love. So, what qualifies Paul to speak about love? His childhood experience was the opposite of love. From that austere beginning, and the distaste it formed inside him, He searched for and eventually created a method that transformed his life from anger to loving everyone. Growing up in a family of abuse, physical touch became his preferred love style, only because of the regularity. He could almost count on it. It was consistent. He came to think that was the way to express love. But deep inside, he knew that was a twisted belief. He wanted a better life for himself, which is why he created a paradigm shift that works. In the book, you’ll find what helped him move from a childhood boot camp of abuse to being a person who loves everyone and can find good about anyone in any circumstance. This is truly the role of love. To find out more about Paul, you can check out his website at https://roleoflove.com/.