Loss 65/101: Loss of a friend: Hannah Rumsey

16 Sep 2025 • 56 min • EN
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#137. Can losing a friend be overlooked in our culture? What happens when the friend who knew you best is gone? And why are there so few resources to help with this kind of grief? This is The Silent Why, a podcast on a mission to explore grief, asking if hope can be found in 101 different types of permanent loss. Loss #65 of 101: Loss of a friend In this episode, we meet Hannah Rumsey from Chicago. She"s the founder of Friends Missing Friends, a community she created for people navigating the loss of a friend. And Hannah’s work grew out of her own story, when in 2015 her best friend Lauren died suddenly. Hannah shares about the deep bond she and Lauren had, Lauren’s incredible zest for life, and the devastating way she first learned of her death - while posting a birthday message on Facebook. Together, we explored the unique challenges of grieving a friend, and why this grief can feel invisible or minimised, how few resources exist for friend-loss grief, despite how common it is, and the surprising ways healing, and hope, can unfold over time. This is a heartfelt and open conversation about a form of grief that isn’t often acknowledged, yet touches so many lives. And for listeners who enjoyed my behind-the-scenes episode on how to make a podcast - there"s a little bonus in this episode - some unedited audio that shows just how in sync Chris and I are with our questioning. 👌 For more about Hannah, Friends Missing Friends, and her podcast: https://www.friendsmissingfriends.com https://www.instagram.com/friendsmissingfriends https://www.facebook.com/friendsmissingfriends http://friendsmissingfriends.com/griefgroup Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/friendsmissingfriends Send us a text Support the show ----- thesilentwhy.com | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | LinkedIn What"s a Herman? / Buy a Herman - thehermancompany.com Support the show: buymeacoffee.com/thesilentwhy Sign-up to my mailing list (only used for sharing news occasionally!): thesilentwhy.com/newsletter How to talk to the grieving: thesilentwhy.com/post/howtotalktothegrieving Review the show: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Goodpods Episode transcripts: thesilentwhy.buzzsprout.com Thank you for listening.

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