Intentional Matchmaking: Finding Love with Purpose: Ann Parnes and Maria Murray with AfterHello.com

Redefining Connection: The Power of Professional Matchmaking in a Modern World In this insightful episode, I sit down with Maria and Ann, the dynamic duo behind a leading professional dating service AfterHello.com, to unpack the strategy and psychology behind intentional matchmaking. They walk us through their thoughtful, human-first process—starting with in-depth client interviews, leveraging an extensive and curated database, and culminating in collaborative team sessions designed to make meaningful matches. Ann also shares how they coach clients on optimizing dating app profiles—a service that helps individuals avoid common digital pitfalls and approach dating with clarity and intention. Dating in a Post-Pandemic World: Trends and Realignment We explored how the dating landscape has evolved since the pandemic. Ann pointed to a noticeable decline in dating app engagement and a renewed desire for authentic, in-person connections. Maria reinforced that while dating apps aren’t going anywhere, success hinges on using them strategically. I echoed the concern that many individuals jump into dating with little self-awareness or alignment with their core values—often leading to mismatched or short-lived connections. As we discussed, there’s a strong connection between personal relationships and professional achievement, and the data backs that up. The Inner Work of Lasting Love Maria, Ann, and I dove deep into the role of self-reflection in the dating journey. We agreed: personal growth is non-negotiable when it comes to building a healthy, lasting relationship. Their matchmaking philosophy centers on clients who are open to change, understand their core values, and are looking for long-term, monogamous connections. We also explored the idea of finding a partner whose imperfections complement—rather than clash with—your own. Growth, adaptability, and emotional intelligence are just as important as attraction when it comes to sustainable love. What’s Next for Matchmaking Services? Looking ahead, we discussed the rising demand for professional matchmaking as loneliness reaches epidemic levels and people seek more intentional connections. Maria and Ann noted that their industry is growing coast-to-coast and internationally, with expected growth of 10% by 2028. I added that while population growth is slowing—which may impact how and when people form families—there’s never been a more important time to build strong, compatible relationships that support lifelong development. Coaching Meets Connection To wrap up, Maria and Ann spoke about their work in both matchmaking and relationship coaching—helping individuals not only find the right partner but become the right partner. If you’re curious about working with experts who combine data, intuition, and a passion for human connection, I encourage you to visit their website and join their growing community.   What happens when a seasoned matchmaker with a legal background teams up with an operations and wellness expert? You get After Hello. Join co-founders Ann Parnes and Maria Murray as they reveal how their national firm is bringing intention and authenticity back to the dating world.   Ann's journey in matchmaking began in 2017, building a successful boutique firm and leveraging her 14 years in the legal field, including seven as an Assistant District Attorney. This experience honed her sharp intuition and deep understanding of human connection. Maria, with nearly two decades of expertise in operations, recruiting, and business growth, combines her sharp business acumen with a passion for holistic well-being. Her background in cultivating wellness and streamlining systems is pivotal to After Hello's distinctive approach.   Together, they've built After Hello to defy the notion that seeking expert guidance in dating is outdated. They champion a refined approach, proving that investing in matchmaking is a smart choice for those who value their time, discretion, and meaningful results. After Hello blends the science of compatibility with a tailored approach, ensuring curated introductions are just the beginning of authentic love stories. Website:  https://AfterHello.com X-@loveafterhello, LinkedIn-/afterhellomatchmaking, Instagram-@afterhellomatchmaking, TikTok-@afterhello