#97 Kyle Cease on Why You Need to Stop Saying What People Want to Hear

Former standup comic turned transformation expert, Kyle Cease helps people evolve through ditching their “old story”. He started performing stand up comedy at the age of 12 and was headlining by the time he was 18 making him one of the youngest headlining acts in the country. He is the author of the bestselling book “I Hope I Screw This Up” and on this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu, you’re going to see how the story you tell yourself may be the wrong one. Impact Theory is proudly sponsored by: Skillshare. Start learning on Skillshare today at skillshare.com/impact Four Sigmatic: Visit foursigmatic.com/impacttheory for 15% off your order Audible; Try Audible Free here: audible.com/impact ButcherBox. Use the discount code: “IMPACT” at butcherbox.com to get 20$ off and FREE BACON SHOW NOTES: Why Kyle doesn’t prepare or plan [2:20] The difference between goals and intentions [5:09] How to get rid of your past story [8:00] How to break out of the process of repeating your old stories [11:45] The 2 voices you have that decide your life [14:56] The building blocks of a healthy self-story [18:11] The story of Kyle’s mother passing away just 6 weeks before the birth of his daughter [19:23] The story of how Kyle personally had to release an old story [21:37] QUOTES: “I feel like if I planned ahead you wouldn’t be hearing me, you’d be hearing something I prepared.” [2:24] “We live in a world where we don’t say what we’re thinking. We say what people want to hear.” [3:21] “Life can mirror what your intention is” [5:26] “If you undo yourself from the old story, you can change really fast.” [7:38] “Society’s kind of crazy.” [7:38] “I really believe that no person has ever broken your heart, but they break your expectations. And by breaking your expectations, they get you closer to your heart.“ [21:56]   FOLLOW KYLE CEASE: WEBSITE - KyleCease.com // Evolvingoutloud.com TWITTER - https://twitter.com/kylecease?lang=en YOUTUBE - https://www.youtube.com/user/kylecease INSTAGRAM - https://www.instagram.com/evolvingoutloud/ FACEBOOK - https://www.facebook.com/KyleCeasePage/ BOOKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: I Hope I Screw This Up - http://a.co/d/cSJfQXn The Illusion of Money: Why Chasing Money Is Stopping You From Receiving It PEOPLE MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Deepak Chopra - https://twitter.com/DeepakChopra Tony Robbins - https://twitter.com/TonyRobbins Jim Carrey - https://twitter.com/JimCarrey Eckhart Tolle - https://twitter.com/EckhartTolle Oprah - https://twitter.com/Oprah Donald Trump - https://twitter.com/realDonaldTrump TV SHOWS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Comedy Central Laugh Riots Competition Comedy Central Stand up Showdown Jimmy Kimmel Live Chelsey Lately MOVIES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: 10 Things I Hate About You - http://a.co/d/bjY8xC1 Not Another Teen Movie - http://a.co/d/cPR5RkC