I Had to Escape A Self Help Community To Find My Sense of Self w/ Media Company Founder Alundas Havens

How to find your sense of purpose while finding your sense of self. Alundas Havens is a Marine Corps Veteran and the founder of Alpha Influence Media. Originally from Fresno, California, Alundas endured physical abuse, emotional abuse, neglect, and created mental barriers to keep himself “safe” from the world. In this episode of The Man Versus Brand podcast, we speak to Alundas about his upbringing and how that formed his life outlook and drove him to joining the Marines. The Marine Corps allowed Alundas to realize that he had been trapped in a box where he had limited beliefs and didn’t understand simple life concepts, not sufficiently growing into who he was supposed to be. ALundas then began seeking out communities to grow his leaderships skills, find his voice and succeed. Through trial and error, Alundas eventually found his network, but during that time, he was brought into a self help and leadership community that ultimately had to escape.In this episode we talk about mindset, tools to succeed, addiction, trauma, coping mechanisms and how Alundas is helping people who battle to improve and calibrate their mindset. Quote of the Episode: “To start healing how you need to, start filling in those holes, where maybe I didn’t have those things and that’s the hardest part to do. To tap into that inner self, when you start healing that. Even when you work on yourself and notice something else has popped up. You realize you have to work on this to get to the next part.” Alundas on the healing process. Topics Covered: - Transparency in Online Communities - Content Creation - Self Help and Empowerment Industry - Leadership Training - Taking Control of Your Messaging Guest: Alundas Havens LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alundas-havens Email: alundas@alphainfluencemedia.com Alundas’ Top Picks: referenced in podcast: - Guest watch/read/listen recommendation: Stranger Things https://www.netflix.com/title/80057281 - Guest secret watch/read/listen: Egocentric - https://open.spotify.com/show/0OzxF1yzAlzgKGWD6PF2dy Host: Deeon Brown Website: deeonbrown.com Website: projectbigbrand.com/ Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/deeon-brown-6b747b43/ Instagram: instagram.com/bestdeeonever/ Man Versus Brand: Website: manversusbrand.com Instagram: instagram.com/manversusbrand/