Feeling Ignored: How to Be Heard Without Shouting

Overcoming the Feeling of Being Ignored: Real Stories and Practical Strategies SUMMARY In this episode, the host and his coaching friend James discuss the painful experience of feeling ignored, whether at work, online, or among friends. They share personal stories and explore the reasons why feeling ignored can hurt deeply. The conversation delves into strategies to combat this feeling, including setting boundaries, persistence, and reframing rejection. They emphasise the importance of self-awareness, the value of small successes, and not letting fear of judgment hold you back. With practical advice for speaking up and being heard, this episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling to make their voice matter. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction: Feeling Ignored 00:34 Personal Stories and Boundaries 01:59 The Pain of Being Ignored 03:54 Coping Mechanisms and Self-Reflection 06:22 Childhood Experiences and Fitting In 11:38 Professional Challenges and Gender Differences 16:04 Taking Action and Setting Boundaries 20:40 Online Presence and Open Mic Experiences 24:08 Overcoming Failure in Comedy 24:50 The Importance of Persistence 26:19 Choosing the Right Platform 30:19 Seeking Help and Building Networks 35:31 Embracing Imperfection 37:46 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Visit presentinfluence.com/quiz to take the Speaker Radiance Quiz and discover your Charisma Quotient. For speaking enquiries or to connect with me, you can email john@presentinfluence.com or find me on LinkedIn You can find all our clips, episodes and more on the Present Influence YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PresentInfluence Thanks for listening, and please give the show a 5* review if you enjoyed it.