Episode 352: From Fear To Freedom - Mastering Your Relationship With Failure

---------------- SHOW NOTES ---------------- Episode Number: 352 Episode Title: From Fear to Freedom: Mastering Your Relationship with Failure In this transformative episode, Pascale Gibon explores the crucial connection between failure and success. Drawing inspiration from leadership expert John Maxwell, she offers insights on how changing our perspective on failure can unlock our potential and propel us towards our goals. Podcast Highlights: 00:54 Introduction and episode theme 01:06 John Maxwell's insight on the inseparability of success and failure 01:43 Understanding the fear of failure and its impact on goal achievement 02:35 Reframing our thinking about failure and success 03:18 Personal example: Pascale's business lesson 03:57 Embracing ‘failing forward’ as a path to growth 04:46 Dr Willie Jolley's quote on setbacks 04:49 Call to action and closing thoughts   Resources: John Maxwell's Books – store.maxwellleadership.com Dr Willie Jolley's Website - https://williejolley.com/ The Essential Guide To Success Checklist: The 30-Challenge to Build Your Path To Success and Fulfil Your Life’s Purpose – Click here to learn more   Connect with Pascale Gibon: Website: www.pascalegibon.com Email: pascale@pascalegibon.com   From Fear to Freedom: Mastering Your Relationship with Failure This episode delves into the transformative power of reframing our relationship with failure. Pascale Gibon discusses how embracing failure as an integral part of the success journey can lead to personal growth, resilience, and ultimately, the achievement of our goals.   Table of Contents 1. The Inseparability of Success and Failure 2. Understanding the Fear of Failure 3. Reframing Our Perspective on Failure 4. The Concept of ‘Failing Forward’ 5. Practical Application: Learning from Setbacks 6. Embracing Failure as an Ally   The Inseparability of Success and Failure Pascale introduces John Maxwell's profound insight that success and failure should never be separated. She explains how failure provides unique learning opportunities that success alone cannot offer, emphasizing the complementary nature of these experiences in personal and professional growth.   Understanding the Fear of Failure This section explores the psychological barriers created by the fear of failure. Pascale discusses how this fear often stems from deeper beliefs about self-worth and can create a cycle of inaction and missed opportunities.   Reframing Our Perspective on Failure Pascale guides listeners through the process of shifting their mindset about failure. She encourages viewing failure not as a final outcome, but as a necessary step on the path to success, helping to break down the ‘terror barrier’ that often prevents people from pursuing their goals.   The Concept of ‘Failing Forward’ Here, the episode introduces the idea of ‘failing forward’ - using each setback as a stepping stone to progress. Pascale explains how this approach can build resilience and problem-solving skills, ultimately leading to greater success.   Practical Application: Learning from Setbacks Pascale shares a personal anecdote about a business mistake she made early in her career. This example illustrates how failures can provide valuable lessons that inform future decisions and strategies.   Embracing Failure as an Ally The final section encourages listeners to view failure as a positive force in their lives. Pascale emphasizes how this shift in perspective can lead to greater freedom, creativity, and ultimately, success in pursuing one's goals.   Conclusion Pascale wraps up the episode by reinforcing the main message: failure is not something to be feared, but rather an essential component of the journey to success. She encourages listeners to take action towards their goals, embracing the learning opportunities that come with both successes and failures. The episode concludes with a motivational call to action, inspiring listeners to approach their challenges with a new, empowering perspective on failure. ………………………. FREE RESOURCES ………………………. Love this? Do you want to live an abundant life? If you answer Yes! Click here to claim your FREE guide:  Yes! 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Welcome to episode 352 of The Everyday Life Balance Show.  I recently gained profound insight from John Maxwell, the renowned leadership mentor, speaker and New York Times bestselling author. He said, "We should never separate success and failure. We learn things out of failure that we cannot learn from success. And one makes the other better." If you've ever felt petrified by the fear of failure, I dedicate this episode to helping you shift your perspective. Today, we'll explore how failure is not just a part of the success journey – it's an essential component. Think about it: How often have we hesitated to step out of our comfort zone and take that first step towards our dreams because we're afraid to fail? Usually, beneath this fear lies a more profound belief that we're not good enough to achieve our goals. It's a vicious cycle of doubt: "I don't want to succeed because I don't want to fail. I'll be ridiculed, judged, and criticized if I fail, and I can't bear that." This toxic relationship with failure keeps us stuck, preventing us from reaching our true potential. But what if we could reframe our thinking? What if, beyond that terror barrier you're facing, lies freedom? Freedom from the fear of failure, freedom to embark on an exciting journey of growth and achievement. The key is understanding that you will "fail forward" many times on the path to goal achievement. Each setback is an opportunity to learn, grow, and progress. It's like encountering a roadblock and knowing how to overcome it because you've been there before and found your way around. Let me share a personal example. I made a significant mistake when I set up my complementary therapy business back 2007. I didn't thoroughly analyse the financial aspects – the expenses versus income. This oversight taught me an invaluable lesson that I'll never forget. Now, I always advise aspiring entrepreneurs to scrutinize their figures before launching their business, considering factors like room rental costs, equipment expenses, hiring staff, etc. Can you see how this new perspective – that failure and success are inseparable – can empower you to take that first step towards realizing your dreams? There's no holding back now. Give yourself permission to move forward and welcome failure as an integral part of your success story. With this new awareness, failure becomes your ally on the path to success. Failure acts as feedback and suggests it's time to adjust your approach, to get back on track, or sometimes to start anew. Embrace failing forward on your journey as evidence that you're progressing and learning valuable lessons. Remember the wise words of Dr Willie Jolley: "A setback is nothing but a setup for a comeback." Let this be your mantra as you pursue your goals. I hope this episode inspires you to stay motivated and keep pushing forward. Your journey to success is unique, and every stumbling block is an opportunity for growth. Embrace the process, learn from your setbacks, and celebrate your progress – no matter how small.  As we wrap up, I challenge you to take one step this week towards a goal you've been hesitating to pursue. Remember, it's okay if it doesn't go perfectly – that's part of the journey. I wish you a fantastic week filled with courage and determination. Until next Monday, keep striving, no matter what. I'm sending you lots of love and light. Take care and recognise that your greatest successes often lie beyond your biggest failures.