Episode 308-Beyond Words: How Music Bridges Neurological Differences with Craig Parks

Send us a text Craig Parks transforms our understanding of connection with autistic children through the profound language of music. Drawing from his dual expertise as both a professional musician and father to an autistic son, Craig reveals how music became the bridge that helped his non-verbal toddler communicate and eventually thrive as a drummer with perfect pitch. The conversation takes us through Craig"s personal journey of receiving his son"s autism diagnosis at just 16 months old, facing the uncertainty of whether he"d ever hear his child say "Daddy," and discovering how melody and rhythm created pathways of connection where words couldn"t reach. "When he is playing music with other musicians," Craig shares, "in that moment there is no neurotypical, there is no autistic—there"s just humans creating energy together." This revelation led Craig to develop his groundbreaking "Parenting A to E" course, teaching parents to master their "affect"—the physical manifestations of emotions through facial expressions, body positioning, and vocal tone—to better connect with children across neurological differences. Through specially crafted songs that transform daily routines like bedtime and hand-washing into meaningful moments of connection, Craig demonstrates how parents can create lasting memories and stronger bonds with their children. Beyond parenting techniques, our conversation explores the creation of truly inclusive spaces where neurodivergent children can be celebrated for exactly who they are. Drawing from his 27 years directing summer camps, Craig shares how compassionate communities can be built where differences aren"t just accommodated but embraced. Whether you"re a parent, educator, or someone who values human connection across differences, this episode offers practical wisdom for using music to bridge neurological divides and foster relationships built on acceptance and joy. Ready to transform your connection with the children in your life? Email Craig at craigparks@parentingharmony.com for special access to his Parenting A to E course. Support the show