Ep. 139 - What No One Told You About Marriage, Suffering & Manifestation — with Rabbi Manis Friedman

What if everything you believed about marriage, manifestation, and finding yourself was backwards? In this paradigm-shattering conversation with world-renowned philosopher Rabbi Manis Friedman, I"m diving into the ancient wisdom that flips modern spirituality on its head - and reveals why true fulfillment comes from precisely what we"ve been taught to avoid. Rabbi Friedman doesn"t hold back: the secret to Shalom Bayit isn"t about self-help or getting your needs met - it"s about the radical shift from "me" to "bayit." You"ll discover why marriage counseling focused on your personal growth actually undermines the relationship, and how the cosmic principle of "it"s not good to be alone" applies to God Himself, not just humans seeking companionship. This conversation dismantles the Hollywood fantasy of love as a feeling and redefines it as loving what is true - the actual relationship, not just the dopamine rush. Rabbi Friedman reveals why lust can never be selfless, how we confuse pleasure with meaning, and why the human side of us craves isolation while the godly side knows that "just me" makes no sense. You"ll hear shocking wisdom about suffering: why the righteous experience pain not as punishment but as cosmic invitation to fix what others can"t handle, how every moment those hostages resisted despair was Tikkun Olam, and why no pain ever comes to someone it wasn"t meant for. Rabbi Friedman shares the breathtaking spiritual transformation happening in captivity - secular Jews keeping Shabbat for the first time, fasting on Yom Kippur in tunnels, proving that altruism over narcissism is the choice of our generation. This episode includes the teaching that will shift everything: we manifest not through passionate desire for what we want, but through alignment with divine purpose. The difference between spiritual gluttony (praying for yourself) and true service (becoming God"s partner in creation). Why freedom of choice exists so God won"t be alone, and how perfecting yourself keeps you isolated while perfecting the world brings you home. Whether you"re navigating marriage, questioning your desires, or trying to understand suffering, this conversation offers ancient wisdom for the ultimate modern question: narcissism or altruism? Press play and discover why it"s never, ever about you - and why that"s the most liberating truth you"ll ever hear. Follow Rabbi Manis Friedman on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rabbimanisfriedman Rabbi Manis Friedman Linktree - linktr.ee/rabbimanisfriedman Manifestation Portal App - https://www.ayeletpolonsky.com/mm FREE 5-Day Kabbalistic Activation - https://www.ayeletpolonsky.com/opt-in-5f881604-c276-48fe-ad33-7f649faf0d3e FREE MEDITATIONS: 3-6-9 MANIFESTATION METHOD: https://www.ayeletpolonsky.com/opt-in-c5f07fcc-9839-43d6-998f-3476f50c49c1 Ayelet’s Courses: THE ULTIMATE MANIFESTATION MINDSET COURSE: https://www.ayeletpolonsky.com/manifesting 21 DAY JOY CHALLENGE COURSE: https://www.ayeletpolonsky.com/joychallenge MANIFEST ABUNDANCE MEDITATION SERIES: https://www.ayeletpolonsky.com/abundance Connect with Ayelet: Instagram:instagram.com/ayeletpolonsky/ | Tiktok: tiktok.com/@manifestationmindset | Youtube:  youtube.com/@AyeletPolonsky