E335. REP: Stop Judging Younger You: Lessons from Energy & Shadow Work

You're not mad at your past self because she failed — you're mad because she didn't know what you know now. But guess what? She's the reason you know it. In this episode of PivotMe, April takes listeners on a transformative journey through her recent experience with energy and shadow work—a deep dive into the hidden layers of self-judgment, compassion, and growth. Through personal reflection and powerful mindset shifts, April reveals how she uncovered her own inner critic — "The Judge" — and how it was quietly sabotaging her progress. If you've ever replayed your old mistakes, held grudges against your past self, or thought "I should've known better," this episode will speak straight to your soul. Key Takeaways The Trap of Judging Younger You The person you are today is judging the version of you who didn't yet know what you know now. That judgment keeps you stuck and undermines your growth. Recognizing the Inner Judge April shares how her internal "Judge" wasn't focused on others—it was focused inward, constantly critiquing her own past performance and stealing her self-compassion. Optimizing Without Criticizing April's natural ability to optimize systems and performance became counterproductive when used against herself. The reframe: use that optimization for planning the future, not attacking the past. Changing the Narrative Swap out "I could have handled that better" with "Next time, I'll handle it this way." A small linguistic pivot with massive psychological power. Action Steps Notice It: Recognize when your internal Judge shows up. Awareness is the first step to defusing it. Change the Language: Replace past-focused self-criticism with future-focused self-leadership. Thank Your Past Self: She's the one who got you here — flawed, learning, and still standing. Use Energy Work as a Mirror: Instead of asking "Why did I do that?" ask "What was that part of me trying to protect?"  Quotes "The person you are now has learned from the experience, but you're judging the person who hadn't had that opportunity yet." "Instead of saying, 'I could have,' switch it to, 'Next time I will.'" "Your past self isn't your problem — she's your proof that you can grow." April's journey through energy and shadow work revealed one powerful truth: Self-compassion isn't just about forgiving who you are today — it's about honoring who you were. When you stop judging your past self, you open the door to real healing, growth, and forward motion. "You're not supposed to have known it all then. That version of you was doing her best — and her best is the reason you can do better now." ---------------- 🔥 Step Into the Room with April Garcia This is your chance to secure a complimentary 20-minute strategy call with one of the most sought-after performance and business coaches. Bring your biggest challenge, and walk away with clarity, strategy, and next steps. Opportunities like this don't come often. Claim your spot now before they disappear. 👉👉 Connect with April here: Website: https://www.theaprilgarcia.com  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/AprilGarciaPivotMe  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theAprilGarcia/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theaprilgarcia