Designing an Intentional Life | Tim Ferriss | Ep 558

  Tim Ferriss focusing on financial independence, the importance of mentorship, and the role of playful experimentation in living a fulfilling life. Discover insights on designing an intentional life and the values behind Tim's new game, COYOTE. Key Takeaways Experiential Learning & Game Selection Choose the right projects to engage in rather than just focusing on winning. Tim stresses that the correct game selection impacts long-term success more than winning the game itself. Mentorship Mentors and influential figures can shape our lives and paths significantly. Tim shares personal stories of mentors that led him to better decisions and prevented disastrous outcomes. Social Connections Both Brad and Tim agree on the importance of meaningful social interactions and relationships in ensuring a fulfilling life post-financial independence. Importance of Play & Experiments Financial independence allows for the experimentation of interests. Tim emphasizes the need for playful exploration of life after achieving financial goals. Episode Breakdown 00:00:00 Introduction Welcome to ChooseFI! This week features Tim Ferriss, renowned author and podcaster. 00:01:15 Tim's Background and Impact Tim shares his journey from aspiring neuroscientist to bestselling author and podcaster. The significance of mentors in influencing his life. 00:09:47 Mentorship and Its Importance Exploration of how mentors shaped Tim’s decision-making and life course, leading to successful outcomes and personal growth. 00:15:05 Choosing Projects and Life Experiences Tim emphasizes the concept of game selection, stating it’s about finding projects and experiences that align with personal growth, rather than merely aiming for success. 00:14:04 Real Growth Happens Outside Your Comfort Zone Discussing self-imposed limitations and the value of experimenting at the edge of comfort zones for personal development. 01:13:16 The Importance of Social Interaction The significance of social connections in enhancing life experiences and mental health. 01:30:47 Discussion on COYOTE Game Overview of Tim's new game COYOTE, the thought process behind it, and its importance in fostering social interaction and play. Notable Quotes "Choosing the right game is more important than just winning!" - Tim Ferriss 00:15:43 "Real growth happens outside your comfort zone." - Tim Ferriss 00:14:04 "It's not about winning—it's about self-discovery through experimentation." - Tim Ferriss 00:43:40 "Be proactive about your well-being, don't wait for a crisis to take action." - Tim Ferriss 01:32:30 "Focus on nurturing your top ten most important relationships." - Tim Ferriss 00:31:26 Actionable Takeaways Experimentation: Start small experiments in your life to explore new interests (Timestamp: 00:40:44). Prioritization of Relationships: Focus on nurturing your top ten most important relationships (Timestamp: 00:31:26). Intentional Play: Engage in intentional play and social activities for overall well-being, especially after achieving financial independence (Timestamp: 01:13:16). Related Resources COYOTE Card Game: Buy Here (Timestamp: 01:30:00) 5-Bullet Friday Newsletter: Subscribe Here (Timestamp: 01:34:06) Tim's Blog and Podcast: Visit Here (Timestamp: 01:35:01) Discussion Questions How can you apply the concept of game selection to your personal or professional life? [Timestamp: 00:15:43] What are some small experiments you can run to discover new interests? [Timestamp: 00:40:04] How do you prioritize your relationships and ensure they align with your goals? [Timestamp: 00:31:26]