Courageously claiming female pleasure: The doorway to your destiny – with Courtney Boyer

What’s on your mind, unicorn? 🦄 Send me a text! As someone who grew up in faith-based schooling with restrictive norms and shame-based practices, the word "pleasure" has long given me the heebie jeebies.  Until very recently, I couldn"t even imagine, let alone EMBRACE, a world or belief system where pleasure and autonomy are embraced rather than shamed.  Yet, here we are, about to share a conversation with Courtney Boyer that could be the very key to unlock a life filled with more vibrancy and authenticity for so many. THIS is an important conversation – probably one of the most important conversations we can be having. Courtney Boyer, a renowned relationship and sexuality expert, joins us to unravel the layers of societal expectations that often snuff out joy and self-acceptance at every level of our lives. And when we get to the bottom of it, much of our challenges with love and joy and acceptance and abundance - it"s all wrapped up in our shame around our own desires and experience of pleasure. Courtneys wisdom will – at the very least – spark curiosity in you around the complexities of female pleasure and its profound implications it has on your personal sense of freedom and empowerment. This episode sheds light on the surprising connection between embracing our desires and stepping into a world where life is lived in full color. We confront the misinformation surrounding female sexuality and celebrate the potential for a society informed by pleasure, rather than restrained by outdated taboos. Pleasure is not just about the act of sex; it"s about claiming our rightful place in a narrative that has long been dictated by others, and in doing so, finding our truest selves. MEET COURTNEY BOYER Courtney Boyer is a relationship and sexuality expert and author of Not Tonight, Honey: Why women actually don"t want sex and what we can do about it. She has been featured in publications including Parent’s, The Huffington Post, Cosmopolitan, The Independent, Yahoo!, and The Mirror. Courtney believes we can reclaim our power through our sexuality and she helps her clients to infuse passion and creativity into their lives by helping them uncover what"s preventing them from connecting with their pleasure and purpose. For 2024, Courtney is focused on offering small group and 1:1 concierge sexual wellness retreats around the world. As her work in this field develops, Courtney is drawn to the emerging fields of epigenetics, neuropsychology and energy work. She is trained in evidence-based methods like NLP, EMDR, IFS, and trauma-focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.FacebookInstagramLinkedInGet Courtney"s book: Not Tonight, Honey: Why women actually don"t want sex and what we can do about it  Support the show Mark your calendar for January 8th, 2025—it’s the annual Word of the Year Party! This is where we come together, set intentions, and choose the word that will guide us toward more meaning, more creativity, and more joy in the year ahead. It’s totally free! To register, go to JenLiss.com/2025 Support the pod: Share an episode and tag Jen on IG @untetheredjen Follow/subscribe to get updates of new episodes Leave a review! Music created and produced by Matt Bollenbach