Breadwinners, Working Women, and Power in the Household with Melissa Hogenboom

11 Aug 2025 • 58 min • EN
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Are your relationships and household dynamics feeling out of balance due to money and work stressors? This episode explores insights and strategies for creating equitable and harmonious relationships across financial and domestic spheres. I, along with guest Melissa Hogenboom, dive into the impact of gender dynamics on household responsibilities, power imbalances, and the mental load frequently shouldered by women. We discuss the importance of communication, valuing care work, and sharing responsibilities effectively. Learn practical steps to rebalance efforts in your life and foster a more equitable future for the next generation.In This Episode, We Explore:How societal and childhood gender norms affect our work and money dynamics today.The concept of unwise effort versus wise effort in household and workplace settings.Tips for effective communication and sharing the mental load in relationships.Balancing career, domestic, and finances equitably in relationships. Suggested Next Episode: Episode 126: Wise Parenting With ACTRelated Resources Get enhanced show notes for this episodePre-order my upcoming book, Wise Effort: How to Focus Your Genius Energy on What Matters Most, and receive special pre-order bonus gifts.Want to become more psychologically flexible? Take Diana's "Foundations of ACT" course. Diana's EventsReserve your spot in Diana's Costa Rica retreat in 2026!See Diana at an upcoming event Connecting With DianaSubscribe for free on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.Leave a 5-star review on Apple so people like you can find the show.Sign up for the free Wise Effort Newsletter.Become a Wise Effort member to support the show.Follow Diana on YouTube, Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and Diana’s website. Thanks to the team, Craig and Ashley Hiatt, and Benjamin Gould of <a href="https://bellandbranch.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer"...

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