Aaron Gambel - "Turning Pain Into Purpose - Stories of Surviving Divorce, Suicide, and Abandonment"

What happens when generations of men are taught to suppress their emotions? Aaron Gambel knows firsthand. After a childhood marked by trauma and neglect, he built a successful 15-year career in Hollywood—using the high-stress environment to stay in "survival mode" rather than confronting deeper issues. Until it all came crashing down. Five days before his 43rd birthday, Aaron found himself holding a bottle of pills, contemplating ending it all. The image of his children playing downstairs saved his life and launched him on a journey of profound transformation. His "mental health college experience"—30 days in treatment—gave him tools that would not only heal himself but also help other men struggling with emotional disconnection. Aaron"s story illuminates a silent crisis: suicide is now the second leading cause of death for men under 45. The root cause? Generations of men raised by war veterans, taught never to speak about their experiences or emotions. "You can"t open up emotionally, you"re not truly connecting with another human being," Aaron explains. This epidemic of loneliness is literally killing men. Through his men"s groups and life coaching, Aaron now helps others break these destructive patterns. He shares powerful insights about fatherhood, co-parenting after divorce, and the importance of modeling emotional intelligence for the next generation. His practical approach combines meditation, breathwork, and physical movement to help men "get out of their heads and into their hearts." Aaron"s vulnerability offers a roadmap for other men seeking authentic connection. Discover how creating safe spaces for brotherhood can transform lives, break generational trauma, and perhaps even save lives. Visit aarongambel.com to learn more about his work with men and fathers. • Growing up with childhood trauma and neglect shaped Aaron"s understanding of parenting and relationships • Working in the film industry for 15 years kept Aaron in "survival mode" but ultimately distracted him from addressing deeper issues • Men struggle with emotional presence because they"re conditioned to "fix" rather than feel • The alarming statistic that suicide is the second leading cause of death for men under 45 • How generational trauma creates patterns of emotional disconnection among men • The power of brotherhood and men"s groups in creating safe spaces for connection • Aaron"s mental breakdown and 30-day "mental health college experience" transformed his approach to life Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally. Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE We love hearing from all of you about how you're enjoying our content! A really cool way you can do that is Fan Mail. Check out the promo and starting sending messages right away! It's easy and it's fun too! Trust me! Thank you for reaching out and allowing us the privilege of hearing from our faithful listeners and viewers! I can't wait to get your next message! Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now! I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE Support the show Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new