A Family, Maybe: Zen, Identity, and the Stories That Shape Us

On today’s episode of Zen Commuter, I sit down with Lane Igoudin, author of A Family, Maybe—a beautiful, nuanced memoir about identity, belonging, and the shape-shifting nature of family. Our conversation moves between personal reflection and practical insight, touching on Lane’s writing process, the complexities of chosen family, and how Zen meditation helped guide him through periods of uncertainty and transformation. This isn’t just a conversation about a book—it’s about learning how to sit with life’s open questions with presence, curiosity, and grace. What You’ll Learn: How Zen practice supported Lane’s journey through personal and familial exploration Why uncertainty can be fertile ground for growth How writing itself can be a meditative and healing act Ways to bring awareness and stillness into the storytelling of your own life Resources: Learn more about Lane Igoudan and A Family, Maybe - https://laneigoudin.com/ Looking to deepen your meditation practice? Visit the Zen Commuter website for resources, retreats, and inspiration. Enjoyed this episode? Share it with someone who’s navigating change—and consider leaving a review to help others find the show. Schedule Time with Thom (Complimentary Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Become a Super-Fan of the Show If this conversation inspired you, please share it using the social media buttons on the page. Be a part of the show! 🎙 Send me a voice message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter 📧 Email: thom@zencommuter.com 📱 Instagram: @thom_walters 🐦 Twitter: @thom_walters 📘 Facebook: facebook.com/zencommuter Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and Review Us in Apple Podcasts: zencommuter.com/review Let me know if you want a pull quote or a short teaser for socials. I'm ready when you are!