69: A Deeper Dive into Enneagram Instincts

There are 3 instincts underlying each of the 9 Enneagram types- self-preservation, social, and 1-1. So, there really are 27 different ways of thinking, feeling and doing life, not just 9! These instincts drive our behaviors. It’s an extremely powerful tool to know this about yourself and also to be aware that others’ in your life may be operating from a different instinct than yours.  This knowledge is game changing. Main points: Each of us is naturally strong in one of the 3 instincts. We have access to the other two ONLY if we are self aware and healthy.  But only the first comes  easily & naturally to us. It starts with trying to notice your primary instinct. It can help to first identify which one you connect with the least- Self Preservation - meeting and protecting the safety & physical needs of “you and yours” (you and your innermost circle)Social - considering the needs of the larger herd or tribe before “you and yours”1-1 - desire for intimacy and intensity If you would like to learn more about how to have Kelly Tibbitts become YOUR life coach, let"s connect. I am cheering for you!