# 220 // What Happens When You Stop Holding It Together? The Answer Might Surprise You

Have you ever wondered what would happen if you finally stopped trying to hold it all together? If you let the mask of “I’m fine” slip for just a moment? So many grieving moms believe strength means smiling through the pain—but what if real strength is something entirely different? ✨Takeaways The surprising reason “being strong” can actually keep you from healing. What 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 teaches about God’s power showing up in weakness. How to recognize when the “cloak of strong” has become a burden instead of a blessing. Why surrender is not failure—it’s the moment peace begins. 🎧  Friend, you don’t have to be the strong one anymore. God isn’t asking you to prove your strength; He’s inviting you to trust His. Press play on this episode and let these few minutes remind you that the world doesn’t need your perfection—it needs your honesty, because that’s where His power shines through.   Grief Mentor Services 1:1 Grief Mentor Session  A faith-centered hour to steady your heart, find peace and clarity, and leave with real tools and next steps. I pray over you before we even speak.. 👉 Book your session:Here Free Support Group  Say your child’s name, be seen, and receive gentle guidance with others who understand. 💙 Join the group: Here Free Resources  Survival Guide • Masterclass Day-1 (reply for Day-2) • Worship Playlist • Weekly newsletter • Blog • Podcast (Tues & Sat) 📚 See all free resources: Here — Teresa, Your Grief Mentor