178 - How to Understand the Manosphere: Father Wounds, Power & Accountability with Will Adolfy

In this podcast episode, Boysen engages in a deep and conversation with Will Adolfy, a BACP qualified psychotherapist, coach, and founder of the 30 Day Men"s Program about the "manosphere."  The discussion centers around the "manosphere," the red pill community, and influential figures in the online men"s world, with a particular focus on personal experiences and psychological insights. Will, who has an extensive background working with young men in educational settings, shares his journey from being drawn into the manosphere and influenced by figures like Jordan Peterson, to his eventual realization of the psychological and emotional impacts of this community.  He discusses his struggles with mental health, the coping mechanisms he developed, and the breakthrough he experienced through therapy and self-discovery. The conversation also highlights the importance of providing non-judgmental spaces for men, addressing unresolved resentments, and the need for a healthier, more compassionate and powerful approach to masculinity. Will emphasizes the significance of internal healing, empathetic dialogue, and the dangers of projecting unresolved issues onto external entities. The episode closes with advice for young men on finding self-worth and empowerment from within. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Background 00:29 Exploring the Manosphere 02:45 Personal Journey into the Manosphere 06:24 Mental Health Struggles 08:57 Discovering Jordan Peterson 16:03 Impact on Relationships and Beliefs 25:55 The Patriarchal Script 31:23 Initiation into Maturity 34:58 Turning Inward for Healing 36:05 Realizing Unhappiness and Seeking Change 37:19 Moments of Synchronicity and Spiritual Awakening 38:55 Joining Recovery Groups and Facing Resentments 39:21 Understanding Projection and Starting Recovery 40:49 Physiological Changes and Emotional Release 42:16 Stabilizing and Moving Towards Thriving 44:11 The Im Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs. #Sponsorship #Ad Support the show Magic Mind: Get 20% Off Your Subscription Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐: >>>HERE<<< Stay in the loop with powerful figures in the world of Men"s Work. Find A Men"s Circle Near You: https://mkpusa.org/mens-group With over 1000+ Men"s Circles (Virtual + In-Person) worldwide, men are waiting to welcome you into a kind, supportive and safe brotherhood of men. FREE Online Men"s Groups are available every week. The Men"s Work: https://mkpusa.org/themenswork/ In just three short weeks we’ll give you a solid foundation for moving ahead in your life, and you won’t be going alone. Cohorts Launch Every Month 🎵Listen To Jim Donovan & The Sun King Warriors: Spotify: Listen Here