169 - How to Stop Repeating the Patterns that Kill Your Relationships with Jayson Gaddis

In this episode of the Mankind Podcast, hosts Boysen Hodgson and Brandon Clift are joined by Jayson Gaddis, founder of The Relationship School, to dive deep into the dynamics of relationships, emotional growth, and masculinity. Jayson shares his personal journey, starting with the pain and failure he experienced in relationships, and how that led him to do his inner work. He opens up about overcoming childhood conditioning, where he learned to suppress his emotions, leading to difficulties in intimacy and connection. Key themes include the challenges men face in relationships, the role of emotional intelligence, and how both men and women can break unhealthy patterns. Jayson introduces his concept of "Lufu" (Listen Until They Feel Understood), a transformative approach to communication, particularly valuable for men struggling to connect with their partners. The conversation also touches on how childhood experiences shape adult relationships, the importance of group work in healing, and the radical changes that can come from self-awareness. Jayson highlights the balance between fierce confrontation and tender care in coaching men to develop deeper, more meaningful relationships. He also shares his vision of reaching 17 million American families to teach them how to repair and grow from relational conflicts. Get Jayson"s Book - "Getting to Zero"  Find Jayson Gaddis - https://relationshipschool.com/ Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs. #Sponsorship #Ad Support the show Magic Mind: Get 20% Off Your Subscription Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐: >>>HERE<<< Stay in the loop with powerful figures in the world of Men"s Work. Find A Men"s Circle Near You: https://mkpusa.org/mens-group With over 1000+ Men"s Circles (Virtual + In-Person) worldwide, men are waiting to welcome you into a kind, supportive and safe brotherhood of men. FREE Online Men"s Groups are available every week. The Men"s Work: https://mkpusa.org/themenswork/ In just three short weeks we’ll give you a solid foundation for moving ahead in your life, and you won’t be going alone. Cohorts Launch Every Month 🎵Listen To Jim Donovan & The Sun King Warriors: Spotify: Listen Here