#136 Writing Towards Recovery: Jackie Goldschneider on The Weight of Beautiful

Jackie Goldschneider gets real about writing her powerful memoir The Weight of Beautiful, opening up about her lifelong battle with an eating disorder, her journey to recovery, and what it was really like turning her story into a book—on her own terms. In this episode: Why Jackie chose not to use a ghostwriter for her memoir [5:25] How her eating disorder shaped her life and why recovery was non-negotiable [6:17] The writing process behind The Weight of Beautiful [7:00] What helped Jackie write a book while filming, parenting, and working [7:48] Tips for structuring memoir scenes that connect with readers [8:39] How she decided what to include (and leave out) about family and TV life [10:56] The importance of voice and honesty in memoir writing [15:17] Jackie's next project—and how a screenplay idea turned into a novel [34:34] Jackie Goldschneider is an author, activist, speaker and a longtime cast member of The Real Housewives of New Jersey. Before joining the show, Jackie was an attorney and freelance journalist, and has contributed extensively to publications including Good Housekeeping, HuffPost and Scary Mommy, and wrote a weekly parenting column for New Jersey's The Record newspaper for several years. Her debut memoir, The Weight of Beautiful, was published by ‎Simon and Schuster in September 2023. Since then, Jackie has been a nationally recognized advocate for eating disorder recovery. Jackie graduated Magna Cum Laude from Boston University and received her Juris Doctorate from Fordham University School of Law. Jackie lives in Tenafly, NJ with her husband, Evan, and their two sets of twins, ages 17 and 14.   Connect with Jackie   Website: https://Jackiegoldschneider.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jackiegoldschneider   Twitter: https://x.com/jgschneid Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jackiegoldschneider/ TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@jackiegold100   Get The Weight of Beautiful on Estelle’s Bookshop https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-weight-of-beautiful-jackie-goldschneider/19748044?aid=98827&ean=9781668023808&listref=authors-who-have-appeared-on-freelance-writing-direct     Estelle Erasmus: an award-winning journalist, is the author of WRITING THAT GETS NOTICED (named a "Best Book for Writers" by Poets & Writers Magazine), a Contributing Editor for Writer's Digest, and host of the podcast Freelance Writing Direct. She is an adjunct instructor for NYU’s School of Professional Studies/Center for Publishing and Applied Liberal Arts, has written for over 150 publications, including The New York Times, Next Avenue/PBS, WIRED, The Independent,The Washington Post, and AARP: The Magazine, and was the editor-in-chief of five national publications. Find out more at estelleserasmus.com    Sign up for her Substack  (with craft advice and writing opportunities). Paid subscribers receive opportunities for pitch reviews, plus bonus clips from Freelance Writing Direct guests https://estelleserasmus.substack.com   Mentioned in the episode: Estelle’s substack post Why Taping My Podcast Reminds Me of Working in Magazines  https://estelleserasmus.substack.com/p/why-taping-my-podcast-reminds-me   Read Estelle’s latest post on Substack (and an editing offer for paid subscribers): 5 Hard Truths about Essay Writing  https://estelleserasmus.substack.com/p/5-hard-truths-about-essay-writing Apply to be on Freelance Writing Direct in a coaching episode: email freelancewritingdirect@gmail.com and state three of the issues you are dealing with that you would like Estelle’s help with.   Sign up for Estelle’s NYU Classes https://www.sps.nyu.edu/professional-pathways/faculty/e/1068-estelle-erasmus.html   Get Her Book  Writing That Gets Noticed: Find Your Voice, Become a Better Storyteller, Get Published: https://rb.gy/5ihwp0   Order Her Audiobook: https://shorturl.at/4uG2P   Follow Estelle: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/EstelleSErasmus TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@EstelleSErasmus Twitter: https://twitter.com/EstelleSerasmus BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/estelleserasmus.bsky.social Freelance Writing Direct has been named a 2025 Podcast of the Year Winner in the Education category by the American Writing  Awards. For a list of winners go here https://americanwritingawards.com/