This One Thing Is KILLING Modern Relationships

06 Nov 2025 • 20 min • EN
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I break down one of the biggest imbalances destroying modern relationships — the lack of reciprocity in expectations between men and women. I talk about how men are often taught to meet every expectation a woman has, but rarely to define their own standards. I’ll share how this dynamic leads to resentment, imbalance, and frustration, and what men can do to restore integrity, respect, and balance in their relationships. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – The core imbalance in modern relationships 00:57 – What women are taught vs. what men are taught 02:44 – The cost of overgiving and having no standards 06:17 – Bringing your own expectations into relationships 09:13 – The moving target of expectations 10:40 – Restoring balance and reciprocity 12:22 – Knowing your value and defining your standards 14:11 – Communicating expectations and setting boundaries 16:55 – Don’t reward disrespect 18:50 – Expect deeply, love generously *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.  Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

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